Hematology-Oncology

How to Help Toddlers Cope When The Parent Has Cancer
Toddlers need supportive adults to help them understand what is happening. A parent’s presence and loving hugs will be important during this time. Tell your child what is going on, but keep it very simple. “Mommy/Daddy is sick. Mommy/Daddy has cancer. Mommy/Daddy needs to go to the hospital. The doctors will give Mommy/Daddy medicine to get better.” Repeat this often.

Children this age are very sensitive to change. They are likely to be most upset by your absence. Try to keep routines the same if possible, especially around bedtimes. Children do best with a regular routine. Keeping things consistent helps kids feel safe.

When you cannot be with your child, try to limit the caregivers to a few people who your child knows well. This might be a grandparent, a day care provider or a family friend. Be sure those caring for your child, know his/her routines, favorite foods, books and toys - those things that provide comfort.

Don’t be surprised if your child acts up. This may happen when you are feeling the most ill. Your child wants to make sure you are ok. When things return to normal, your toddler may think it is now “safe” to act up. This is also normal.

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