Hematology-Oncology

My daughter really wants to do something to help me. She’s only 5 years old. What can she do?
Tell your daughter that now is a great time to help out. She might be able to bring you a snack or drink while you are resting. Cleaning up her toys can also be a big help. And don’t forget hugs!

What activities can I do with my six-year old son?
It may be helpful to make a calendar together. This way, your child knows when you need to come to the hospital. You can also mark when fun things are going to happen.

I’m having a hard time getting my child to talk to me about his feelings. Do you have any suggestions to help him open up?
Using puppets can be helpful. Your child can use a puppet to talk to you when it is hard for him/her to ask questions or talk. You can ask the puppet questions too.

I want to make sure I spend some quality time to bond with my child. Do you have any suggestions on a good time to do this?
Reading can be a time of connection. Grab a short snuggle and a story whenever you get the chance. If you feel ill, try a book with a tape. We know that you have many extra demands on your time, so this might not be as possible as often as you would like.

What are some toys that may be helpful during this time?

• Play doctor’s kit
• Dollhouse with family
• Blank paper, crayons, markers, paint, and clay
• Anything that talks about feelings

Do you have a list of websites, books, and other resources on helping kids cope?
Information Finder on Helping Kids Cope

You may also be interested in other topics:

• Talking and Helping
• Coping

Revised 2006