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How to
Help Toddlers Cope When
The Parent Has Cancer
Toddlers need supportive adults to help
them understand what is happening. A parent’s
presence and loving hugs will be important
during this time. Tell your child what
is going on, but keep it very simple.
“Mommy/Daddy is sick. Mommy/Daddy
has cancer. Mommy/Daddy needs to go to
the hospital. The doctors will give Mommy/Daddy
medicine to get better.” Repeat
this often.
Children this age are very sensitive to
change. They are likely to be most upset
by your absence. Try to keep routines
the same if possible, especially around
bedtimes. Children do best with a regular
routine. Keeping things consistent helps
kids feel safe.
When you cannot be with your child, try
to limit the caregivers to a few people
who your child knows well. This might
be a grandparent, a day care provider
or a family friend. Be sure those caring
for your child, know his/her routines,
favorite foods, books and toys - those
things that provide comfort.
Don’t be surprised if your child
acts up. This may happen when you are
feeling the most ill. Your child wants
to make sure you are ok. When things return
to normal, your toddler may think it is
now “safe” to act up. This
is also normal.
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