Preschoolers need supportive adults to help them understand what is happening. A parent's presence and loving hugs will be important during this time.

Preschoolers need to be told that the cancer is not their fault. No one in the family did anything to make their sibling sick. Having a fight, or saying or thinking something does not cause cancer. Tell your children that we do not know what causes cancer, but many people are working on the problem.

Make sure your child knows that cancer is not contagious. Many children this age will think they can "catch" cancer, like a cold. Tell them it is fine to hug, kiss and spend time with their sibling. In fact, hugs will make everyone feel better.

Children can have a lot of different feelings when a sibling has cancer. They can be sad, angry, worried, or scared. They may feel different feelings on different days. Encourage your child to tell you about their feelings. Make a point to ask them how they are feeling. Assure them that all their feelings are normal.

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Support & Education Programs
When a child is diagnosed with cancer, it has a significant impact not only on the child, but parents, siblings and extended family as well.

We offer a variety of services to help patients and families gain the support and information they will need to meet the challenges ahead such as:

• Educational series on "Children and Cancer: A Program for Families"
• Back Pack program, My Story in Beads and other pediatric support programs, please see the Parent and Family Support.

Look for other support, wellness, and educational programs offered in the HOPES calendar.